Okay so my girlfriend really wants to try anal with me but she is very afraid due to past experiences. She has only ever tried anal twice and the first time wasn't exactly consensual. So her experience with anal isn't at all positive from what she has told me. I'm a very avid anal lover and am very experienced in anal play since I like anal both ways. What i'm struggling with is getting her relaxed enough and helping her to forget her past experiences. She tells me she really wants to try it and she has been having fantasies about doing it but this mental block with her past experiences is preventing her from trying. How can I sort of help her to put the past behind her and try it with me?